McInteer 150.

It is the largest classroom in the Bible building at Harding University. I never had a regular class in that room but what happened there radically and profoundly changed my life.

It is in McInteer 150 where I met the love of my life.

In the fall of 1999, I was scheduled to spend my semester studying abroad in Athens, Greece. Before I was to leave, I went to campus to help with the incoming freshmen and to spend some time with friends. I was also scheduled to take a test for scholarships/credits.

On Saturday morning I arrived to the room a little early with book in hand. I wasn’t interested in chit-chat. I wasn’t looking for a date. I simply wanted to take my test and get out of there.

Then she walked by.

Short brown hair. Beautiful smile. She was wearing a Dave Matthews Band shirt.

“Bingo! Conversation starter!” is instantly what I thought.

I engaged her with some small talk and we connected. As the room started to get full she went and sat down near the front of the room. She stayed there a few minutes before returning to my row in order to sit next to me so we could continue talking.

We interacted with one another during that week off and on in the cafeteria or  somewhere on campus. As the week was drawing to a close I desperately wanted to ask her out. The problem was that I would essentially be traveling for the next 6 months. It would be less than an ideal situation for me to get involved with someone over such a long distance. I just didn’t know what the right thing to do was.

One night she asked, “Are we going to go out to dinner sometime before you  leave?”

“Yes. Yes we are!” I replied. It was just the right nudge that I needed.

We went to dinner and a movie later that week and it was, hands down, the best date I had ever been on.

I spent the next few months bouncing from internet cafe to internet cafe writing her emails and exchanging correspondence. I was in love.

The best part: So was she!

In 2001, I married Sandy. 11 years later, we have an awesome marriage, two beautiful kids, a wonderful life, and a vision for our future. I am blessed because she is my wife. I am a better person because she is my friend. I love her with every ounce of my being. She is my rock, my encourager, and the love of my life.

Thank you Sandy. Thank you for all that you are and all that you do. You are the best. I love you.

Oh, and thank you McInteer 150. Well played.

Question: Who is the love of your life? What is your love story?