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Perspective on a Changin’ Times

In life, change is unavoidable. Kids change from children to adolescents over night. We move from season to season with very little fanfare. Products and television shows move and change as the public changes their tastes. Change happens.

In youth ministry, changes can bring about frustrations when done poorly or changes can bring about new life when carried out with care.

I read a great article this morning that compared changes within our youth ministries to changes on the hit children’s television show Blue’s Clues. No foolin’. The post was right on the money. If you are in youth ministry or you are anticipating changes within a ministry, read this article.

You probably know the scenario quite well by now. You enter a new ministry with all the gusto in the world, excited at the chance to make a difference in the lives of students (again). Not only that, but you also have another shot to share the vision God has put into your heart in a way that works for you (and seems supported by the leadership who hired you). There’s only one problem, though… the youth worker on staff before you left you some baggage that you feel needs “cleaning up.” Maybe it’s the night the student ministry meets or the person who was left in charge of the praise team. In any event, you gamble again with the concept of change, wondering what it’s going to take to put a well-needed fresh spin on things.

Perhaps the real issue, though, is if the change is as needed as we think it is. Many times in ministry we enter our latest paradigm with baggage of our own, often wanting to create our new context into the image of our old one. Other times we have been operating with an outdated model of how to do student ministry that may have worked before but won’t necessarily work again. With this in mind, the real tension lies not in the structure we’ve inherited but in the agenda of our own hearts.

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Getting A (Blue’s) Clue About Change

Eighteen Years of Dawning

Back in college, my youth ministry professor turned me on to a book by Kendra Creasy Dean entitled The Godbearing Life: The Art of Soul Tending for Youth Ministry. Much like Bro. Lawrence’s Practicing the Presence of God, this book helped shape my heart for ministry in ways that I hadn’t yet experienced. Every so often, I get the itch to re-read The Godbearing Life and everytime I do I learn a little more. Dean makes the argument that we- youth ministers, pastors, teachers- have been invited to become Godbears to the world in which we live. While Mary physically brought God into the world in the birth of Jesus Christ, “God invites all of us to become Godbearers- persons who by the power of the Holy Spirit smuggle Jesus into the world through our own lives, who by virtue of our yes to God find ourselves forever and irrevocably changed.” This powerful image has stuck with me from the first moment that my eyes read the words on the page. What an awe inspiring invitation. You cannot help but be passionate about that task.

Dean’s newest book Practicing Passion: Youth and the Quest for a Passionate Church begins with another powerful image of invitation. Although this one is a little more daring and scarry. Dean believes that just as Abraham was asked to offer Isaac before the Lord, we too must make that same choice. Do we allow our children to go off into the world to face the culture on their own or do we offer them up to God so that they might have a new life and a new heart? The choice seems simple but, according to Dean, the choice can seem terrifying when you are faced with the full reality of having a child who is entering into adolescence.

No amount of searching the text or teaching or preaching quelled the rage that mounted when I read that abraham bound Isaac to an alter, automotron-like, following the divine dictum that he present his child as a burnt offering to God. What kind of parent would do such a thing? What kind of God would ask such a thing?

And then my son turned twelve.

Now, it seems, there are only two choices. Brendan could come of age alone, as scores of his pubescent peers will do, heading into the wilderness of adolescence to face decisions- many with irreversible consequences- once reserved for adults. I know he can’t survive this alone. He has youth, smarts, and vigor, but few skills of resistance, and precious little experience excersising wisdom over whim. Consumer culture would surely eat him alive. Its greedy teeth marks show already.

The other option is to accept God’s invitation: “Take your son, whom you love, and offer him as a burnt offering on one of the mountains that I shall show you” (Genesis 22:7). I can climb this coming-of-age mountain with Brendan just so far, knowing that very soon I will run out of ways to protect him.

Surely God does want Brendan’s heart, the way God desires the heart of every adolescent. Yet if Brendan were to run, where would he go? Back to the shelter of childhood? He could try, but he’ll soon learn that no adolescent can be a child again, no matter how immature he acts. Forward, then, to adulthood? A rather optimistic plan, given the fact that no one today knows where, exactly, adulthood actually begins. To his peers? Maybe. But they’re lost in the wilderness too- although we can still hear their voices, most of them, calling out through the media that tempt them off this holy mountain. He could go back to his parents- well, I guess not. Anyway, we’re not home. We’re along for Brendan’s adolescent journey too, which means facing the fact that very soon we are either going to have to give him up or give him over to God.

Given the options, I’m banking on God.

And so his dad and I find ourselves these days hammering away at an alter, made of practices of faith and a fellowship of believers we’ve been attending to over the years- the combustible stuff of Christianity, faith fuel that ignites in the presence of holy fire.

For better or worse, one of these days we will arrive at the sacred place, and I will lay him down on this alter of faith. And when that day comes- when the car keys, the career plans, the dates, and the decisions are his, not ours- his dad and I will offer him up to God, who has a plan.

Question: What does all of this have to do with practicing passion? Answer: Everything

If we are not zealous about teaching and raising our children to follow the Lord than we are like a boxer beating the air. If we do not show our young that the call to follow Jesus Christ is a call to exhibit the Passion of his everlasting love than they will not hear us. Youth ministry is a about ministering to the entire church, re-introducing to this passionate life, and living out its kingdom values.

What an invitation!

Jeremiah 18:3-6

So I went down to the potter’s house, and I saw him working at the wheel. But the pot he was shaping from the clay was marred in his hands; so the potter formed it into another pot, shaping it as seemed best to him. Then the word of the LORD came to me: “O house of Israel, can I not do with you as this potter does?” declares the LORD. “Like clay in the hand of the potter, so are you in my hand, O house of Israel.

2006: The Goal is Soul

Happy New Year everyone! One of my absolute favorite songs is U2‘s Beautiful Day. When it comes on the radio I find myself walking taller and smiling brighter. The lyrics and the music are perfect for any day but they are especially perfect for days like today. If you have the album “All That You Can’t Leave Behind” get it out and ring in the new year with this anthem! Everday is a beautiful day- don’t let em get away!

The heart is a bloom
Shoots up through the stony ground
But there’s no room
No space to rent in this town
You’re out of luck
And the reason that you had to care
The traffic is stuck
And you’re not moving anywhere
You thought you’d found a friend
To take you out of this place
Always
Someone you could lend a hand
In return for grace
Always

It’s a beautiful day
The sky falls and you feel like
It’s a beautiful day
Don’t let it get away

You’re on the road
But you’ve got no destination
You’re in the mud
In the maze of her imagination
You love this town
Even if that doesn’t ring true
You’ve been all over
And it’s been all over you
Always

It’s a beautiful day
Don’t let it get away
It’s a beautiful day
Touch me
Take me to that other place
Teach me
I know I’m not a hopeless case

See the world in green and blue
See China right in front of you
See the canyons broken by cloud
See the tuna fleets clearing the sea out
See the Bedouin fires at night
See the oil fields at first light, and
See the bird with a leaf in her mouth
After the flood all the colors came out

It was a beautiful day
Don’t let it get away
Beautiful day

Touch me
Take me to that other place
Reach me
I know I’m not a hopeless case

What you don’t have you don’t need it now
What you don’t know you can feel it somehow
What you don’t have you don’t need it now
Don’t need it now
It was a beautiful day

Musings on a Christmas Morning

Merry Christmas Everyone! Here are some old words for this new day.

THIS morning being Christmas, and, as the Roman superstition would have it, the nativity of man’s Redeemer; assuming it as true, my thoughts naturally lead me to Bethlehem, Calvary, and the sepulchre of Joseph. And what mysterious, sublime, and animating associations cluster around those three places! How near the point of distance! Eight short miles measured the whole space from the manger to the cross! And how short the interval of time between the first birth from Mary, and the second birth from Joseph’s tomb, of Arimathea! Not quite the half of three-score-years-and-ten completes the labors and the life of Heaven’s and Earth’s First Born! And yet what scenes and transactions crowd this narrow space of earth, and this short interval of time!

Other children, earth’s noblest sons, her proudest benefactors, were born to shed a few scattering rays of science over the benighted mind of man; or to wipe a few tears of sorrow or of anguish from the cheek of human woe; or to rescue man from some heartless tyrant that doomed his victims to abject slavery; or to confer some transient honor on some little circle of kindred friends and favorites. But this blest child of a thousand hopes and promises–this wonderful offspring of [30] Divinity and humanity–this Son of God and Son of Man, was born to be a light of all nations, and of all ages–to scatter night away from all eyes within the realms of mercy–to break forever its dark sceptre and annihilate its power over all his friends and brethren–to dry up the tears of a weeping world by washing away its sins and sorrows in a fountain filled with his own blood–to deliver man from that fiercest of all tyrants, Death; and to bestow honors on a ransomed race, bright as the throne of God and lasting as the ages of eternity.

And how was all this accomplished! Born in a stable–circumcised the eighth day–dedicated on the fortieth, at Jerusalem, in the Temple–persecuted into Egypt–nursed in the land of Ham–brought back to Bethlehem–removed to Nazareth, where he lived subject to his parents till he completed his thirtieth year, living so obscurely, too, as not to be mentioned but once after his return till about the time of his immersion; and at that time he is found in the Temple amongst the teachers, listening to their discourses and propounding to them questions.

After his baptism, commenced his public life. And what a period was that between his two baptisms! Did ever so many deeds of renown, so many demonstrations of divine eloquence, majesty, and power, cluster together in such a bright interval around the person of any son of woman! What temptations and triumphs! What miracles of mercy! What words of grace! What acts of condescension fill up the moments of this brightest epoch of Time’s career! A busier or more active life was never spent. “He went about continually doing good.” What multitudes were instructed, healed, relieved, fed, feasted! How many discourses, both public and private–how many questions answered–how many parables spoken–how many controversies and debates decided–how many triumphs gained–and with what travails, privations, fatigues, exhaustion, fasting, praying, and personal consecration! If all that he did and all that he said had been fully written, the world could neither read nor remember it.

But yet the two greatest victories were not won during his life. He had, indeed, foiled and vanquished Satan. But Death still reigned over all, and the Grave devoured all. The former he killed by dying, and the latter he vanquished by rising out of it and carrying with him its gates and bars up the hill of God.

‘Tis here that immortality lifts its matin ray over a slumbering world. ‘Tis here, a second time, that light is the offspring of darkness, and from the sorrows of death spring up eternal joys. What a plot! The Prince of Life submits to be killed, that he might destroy [31] him that had the power of death! He is carried into Death’s strong prison, which, till that moment, held secure all that ever entered it. But it was not possible that the Prince of Life could be long held under its sway. Like Samsom with extinguished eyes, he stretched forth his hands to seize the pillars, that he might once more try his strength. The third morning came, and with it his almighty power. It was the operation of God. What a victory! The light of the upper world entered the grave–the shrouds of death were lifted up–and a bright ray gleamed through all the charnel-house. But the dead knew it not. It was consolation to all the living saints. It healed the wounds and dried up the sorrows of six thousand years. It promised a bright day of immortality to all the saints. Its shout of victory was heard by the ear of faith. It echoed through all the regions of the dead–Grave, where now thy victory!

The whole earth is sown with men. Sea and land make but one extended burying ground. What treasures lie hidden in the dust! Diamonds of the richest ray are but ashes compared with the remains of saints incorporate with the soil. What trophies has Death gained in six thousand years. But he will soon be divested of them all. The grave will be left without a tenant before many centuries shall have run their rounds.

Bat the most pleasing reflection of all is, that all that sleep in Jesus are to be awakened by the noise of his coming. He has many reasons to hasten his return. The earth is yet the receptacle of the bodies of his friends. Its precious mines of precious metals, its richest minerals of every species, with all its varied tenantry–its living beauties, vegetable and animal, when summed up fall infinitely short of equalling, in his eyes, the ashes of a Noah, a Daniel, or a Job.

We have many strong pledges of our Saviour’s return to this planet, but none that strikes more forcibly so many feelings of our nature than that the earth retains so many of our Lord’s dear kindred, whose ashes are still mingled with its soil. We have not only David’s sepulchre still with us, but those of the grandees Abel, Noah, Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, Samuel, Daniel, Job–all the Prophets–all the Apostles–all the Saints and all the Martyrs. They are yet with us; and precious is their dust in the eyes of our kinsman Redeemer. Come he will–come he must.

How far my musings have led me from my first design! But now when I think of retracing my steps, the cock’s shrill clarion admonishes me that the hour of worship is near; and here I must lay down my pen for the present.

Alexander Campbell
Millennial Harbinger
January 1844

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Faith in Action- December

This month’s charity is the Keep a Child Alive Program. Please read the foundation’s description below and then click the banner at the bottom of this post for a better idea of why this organization exists. A word of caution: You will be changed by the video. The banner will also direct you to how you can make a donation. Thanks everyone.

Keep A Child Alive is a unique campaign that offers you the opportunity to provide life-saving AIDS medicines directly to children and families with HIV/AIDS in Africa and other impoverished countries. For just a dollar a day—or a monthly contribution of $30—you can help save the life of a child or a parent who can’t afford essential treatment and care. Probably less than you spend on coffee each morning.

Contributions to Keep A Child Alive go directly to children and families in desperate need of AIDS medicines. We provide regular updates on Keep A Child Alive’s treatment sites and the kids and parents receiving ARV treatment and support. Most of all, you’ll receive the satisfaction of knowing that you are making a real difference in the lives of children and families who have nowhere else to turn—helping them live longer, happier lives.

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Number 9, Number 9

I have been working through George Barna’s latest book Revolution for the last few weeks or so. I have probably given the book more time than it required but I have really be chewing on it and intentionally taking my sweet time reading and re-reading it. Barna argues that the Church is in this midst of a forever-altering Revolution. This revolution involves an exodus from church as we know it. Accoring to Barna 2/3 of the nation’s adults are currently experiencing and living out their faith within local church congregations. By 2025, the Barna Group expects that number to be halved.

We estimate that about one third will have their dominant experience and expression of faith through alternative forms of the Church: house churches, organic churches, marketplace ministries, cyberchurches, stratigic faith events, and more. Close to another third will experience and express their faith mostly through forms of media, ranging from outside-in forms, such as television and radio, to inside-out forms such as podcasting and filmaking. Family will be the locus of faith realities for a relative handful of believers.

Some of those faith expressions, like House churches, I applaud. Some of those other potential forms quite honestly freak me out a little bit. Thankfully, Barna spends the bulk of the book, not discussing each of these forms, but reminding the reader that he/she will have to make an educated stance on this Revolution. Over and over Barna tells us that we can’t make a stance based on what we personally find comfortable or uncomfortable. Instead we should look to the Lord and “evaluate everything in light of what the Bible teaches.” Using Acts 2, 4, and 5 for his research as to what comforms to biblical guidelines, Barna lays out the seven characteristics he believes are the marks of authentic spiritual fruit:

INTIMATE WORSHIP OF GOD
INTENTIONAL SPIRITUAL GROWTH
FAITH-BASED CONVERSATIONS
KINGDOM-ORIENTED INVESTMENT OF RESOURCES
CAMPASSIONATE SERVANTHOOD
SPIRITUAL FRIENDSHIPS
FAMILY-BASED FAITH

This was what I loved about the book. It wasn’t a triste on destroying church as we know it. It was all about becoming the Church Christ intended us to be. Take some time to read through these passages from Acts. Instead of proof-texting what you already think you understand, seek to read them with new eyes and a new heart. Personally, I am recommitting myself to learn how to be the Church “every day, everywhere, and every way.” I want to live out these characteristics within my own life. Not just on Sundays but every day. Peace.

Good Thoughts

From Preaching re-Imagined by Doug Pagitt:

Speaching: the style of preaching that is hardly distinguishable from a one-way speech. (11-12)

I use this word to distinguish speaching, which I believe to be a form of speaking that is inconsistent with the outcomes we want to see arise from our preaching, from the act of preaching, which I believe to be a good, right, and essential calling of the church. (48)

The whole point of preaching is to help people grow in their understanding of God and how we are to live as God’s people and to empower the church to live out God’s mission. (162)

The church can be the place where we move from “cover versions” of the faith of prvious generations to living, breathing theological communities who articulate and generate new understandings of God, life, and faith. (168)

I imagine churches that see themselves as being for both the new convert and the experienced Christian. This kind of life asks us to expand our understanding of conversion. Rather than seeing it as a one-time event, we ought to think of conversion as a lifelong process, one in which all of us are engaged all the time.

I imagine churches that see themselves as more than the context for speaching. The idea that church is a once-a-week event dismantles everything the gospel calls us to be about. When the worship event centers on speaching, the message to the people is clear: The focus of our life together is this 20-minute segment; the rest is gravy. But when preaching becomes an act of community formation, there is an implicit invitation for participation in the full life of the community. It’s a clear signal that we are about more than teaching, telling, and learning about God. We are about living in the story of God in all times and in all places. (168-169)

Make a BIG Noise

If you have followed this site since the summer, you know that the ONE Campaign has been very important to me. This morning I recieved this message in my inbox. Please read this and prayerfully consider what you can do to help alleviate suffering around the world.

Today is World AIDS Day, and right now, over 350,000 people are alive because Americans like you asked our nation to do more to fight AIDS.

Thank you.

Together, we can and must do more. This is what an emergency looks like: every day in Africa, HIV/AIDS kills 6,600 people, 8,800 people are infected with the HIV virus and at least 1,400 newborn babies are infected during childbirth.

This World AIDS Day, we are fighting back-and we know what works. We can prevent, educate and treat. Right now, the U.S. is providing life-saving medicines to kids, mothers, fathers, farmers and teachers who hold the key to their nations’ futures. Together, we have much farther to go. At the G8, leaders listened to your call and pledged near universal access to AIDS medicines by 2010. Let’s keep up the positive pressure and make sure we keep the promise.

You can continue the fight against AIDS and poverty right now by adding your name to the ONE Big Noise letter and ask America to do more to save lives around the world.

Whenever difficult topics such as AIDS relief come up I know that we get a little uneasy. For some reason, we tend to forget about the people who are suffering and focus only on the disease. I am constantly prodded by the words of my Savior:

“Then the King will say to those on his right, ‘Come, you who are blessed by my Father; take your inheritance, the kingdom prepared for you since the creation of the world. For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me.’
 
“Then the righteous will answer him, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink? When did we see you a stranger and invite you in, or needing clothes and clothe you? When did we see you sick or in prison and go to visit you?’ “The King will reply, ‘I tell you the truth, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers of mine, you did for me.’

  “Then he will say to those on his left, ‘Depart from me, you who are cursed, into the eternal fire prepared for the devil and his angels. For I was hungry and you gave me nothing to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me nothing to drink, I was a stranger and you did not invite me in, I needed clothes and you did not clothe me, I was sick and in prison and you did not look after me.’

  “They also will answer, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry or thirsty or a stranger or needing clothes or sick or in prison, and did not help you?’

  “He will reply, ‘I tell you the truth, whatever you did not do for one of the least of these, you did not do for me.’ “Then they will go away to eternal punishment, but the righteous to eternal life.”

For what it is worth, check out ONE.org and see what you can do to help the helpless, clothe the naked, and feed the hungry. It is the least you can do.

Minus the Gold and Goat Hair

I’ve got a BIG question brewing.

The curriculum for Zondervan’s Read the Bible in 90 Days was delivered to my house during Thanksgiving break. My wife and I tore into the blue box and unpacked all the materials. All of this excitement came from our experiment last month: We read through the entire New Testament in under 20 days. We didn’t just breeze through it. We thoughtfully and carefully read through scripture together. It was a great experience for the two of us. It was so enjoyable that I decided to plunk down the money to purchase the entire kit that would take us through the entire Bible “cover to cover” in 90 days.
We are deeply entrenched in week one and last night we read about the some important events in the history of Israel. Exodus 17-28 takes the Israelites out of captivity, across the Red Sea, into the wilderness and to the foot of Mount Carmel. They receive the Ten Commandments and they receive instructions on how to build the Ark of the Covenant and the Tabernacle. All of this to bring me to my question:

What would it take to re-create the Tabernacle for real?

Sure, I’ve seen models that kids have made in VBS. I’ve seen scale models and maps and blueprints but I’ve never seen a life size recreation.

I’ll be honest. Reading all of the measurements and instructions began to wear on these tired eyes last night. All those cubits, acacia wood pieces, blue strips of cloth, and golden clasps seemed to become a blur to me. I began to get bored with this section. Then I tired to put myself into their sandals. The Israelites were riding high on the victory of God’s defeat of the Egyptians. I’d be willing to bet that they were pretty ecstatic about this project.

Then I began to get excited. I thought about how awesome it would be to teach about the Tabernacle while standing the court of the Tabernacle.

I am seriously considering trying to build a Tabernacle. Of course, I don’t have the money or the resources. I am no engineer and craftsmanship is not my spiritual gift.

I am more of an idea man.

What would it take to do this? Has it been done? Any ideas?