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Study Buddies

We are visiting the in-laws in the Blue Ridge Mountains of Virginia. I took a little time on Sunday to do some studying on their front porch. I snapped this picture of my gorgeous would-be office and my study buddies.

When I study these are my close companions:

  1. Big Drink- Sometimes it is a Coca-Cola and sometimes it is a Sweet Tea. I love having a big ol’ ice cold drink while I’m studying.
  2. Moleskine- I love taking notes in my Moleskine.
  3. iPod w/ My Beats by Dre headphones- Usually when I read I listen to either “Mozart for Your Mind” or my Chillax playlist of chill music. The headphones are as much of a defense study weapon as they are offensive. The headphones say, “I can’t hear you. I’m busy. Keep moving.”
  4. Kindle- My wife took it upon herself to sell my Kindle 2 and surprise me with the smaller, faster, sleeker Kindle 3. I love studying with my Kindle. My entire library in my hand- it doesn’t get much better than that.

Who do you study with?

My Big Red Chair

This is my big red chair.

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Since we have moved into this new house I have found this red chair to be the perfect afternoon companion. At around 2:30pm each afternoon, our back porch begins to be shaded from direct sunlight. As soon I get home I usually pour myself a tall glass of Sweet Tea, grab something to read, and sit outside for a few hours. As hectic and as crazy as our lives have been over the past few months being able to sit outside and be still for a few hours has been an incredible blessing.

In this chair, the concerns of the day are paused. In this chair, tomorrow is planned.

In this chair, life is good.

Music Friday: Couples Slow Dance Playlist

Looking for that perfect song to request for the Couple’s Skate? Maybe you want to sway back and forth with that girl that is your friend at the Junior High dance? You want to burn your wife a love song mix? Look no further than my Couples Slow Dance Mix for your inspiration. Enjoy and have a great weekend!

  1. End of the Road by BoyzIIMen
  2. The Dance by Garth Brooks
  3. Take My Breath Away by Berlin
  4. I Don’t Want to Miss a Thing by Aerosmith
  5. Come Away With Me by Norah Jones
  6. Wicked Game by Chris Issac
  7. Un-thinkable by Alicia Keys
  8. In My Life by The Beatles
  9. No Ordinary Love by Sade
  10. Hallelujah by Jeff Buckley
  11. Drive by The Cars
  12. The Blower’s Daughter by Damien Rice
  13. Flame Turns Blue by David Gray
  14. When The Stars Go Blue by Ryan Adams
  15. She’s Got A Way by Billy Joel
  16. God Only Knows by The Beach Boys
  17. (Everything I Do) I Do It For You by Bryan Adams

The Morning Prayer

From Dietrich Bonhoeffer, Psalms: The Prayer Book of the Bible-

The morning prayer determines the day. Squandered time of which we are ashamed, temptations to which we succumb, weaknesses and lack of discipline in our thoughts and in our conversation with other men, all have their origin most often in the neglect of morning prayer. Order and distribution of your time become more firm where they originate in prayer. Temptations which accompany the working day will be conquered on the basis of the morning breakthrough to God. Decisions demanded by work become easier and simpler where they are made not in fear of men but only in the sight of God. “Whatever your task, work heartily, as serving the Lord and not men” (Colossians 3:23). Even mechanical work is done in a more patient way if it arises from the recognition of God and his command. The powers to work take hold, therefore, at the place where we have prayed to God. He wants to give us today the power which we need for our work.

Music Friday: Failure?

Last week, a friend contacted me to ask about my thoughts on an interview published in the Irish Times with producer, Steve Lillywhite. In the article Lillywhite states explicitly that U2’s No Line on the Horizon album was a out-in-out failure. Of course you know that I have my own opinion on this but let’s take a look at Lillywhite’s statement and see what he has to say.

Legendary U2 producer Steve Lillywhite has said the band’s latest album No Line on the Horizon did not achieve what it set out to achieve and its relative failure had affected them.

The album, released last year, sold a fraction of its predecessors and received mostly lukewarm reviews though it did get a five-star rating in Rolling Stone magazine. Lillywhite, who was its co-producer along with Brian Eno and Daniel Lanois, said No Line on the Horizon lacked a big song and the North African ambience that it tried to recreate did not work.

“At the end of the day, the public are always right especially when you have a platform as big as U2,” he said. “Of course it affects them. They are only human. They put their heart and soul into everything they do, but the sales were not what they expected because they did not have the one song that ignited peoples imaginations.

“It’s a pity because the whole idea of Morocco as a big idea was great. When the big idea for U2 is good, that is when they succeed the most, but I don’t think the spirit of what they set out to achieve was translated. Something happened that meant it did not come across on the record.”

First, let’s acknowledge that Steve Lillywhite has had a long and storied career producing some of the greatest artists and albums in music history. I want to engage his comments not throw them out completely. There is a great deal of nuance in these three paragraphs.

The question is, “Was NLOTH a failure?”

If we are judging by the criteria set forth by Lillywhite in this interview then the answer is Yes. No Line on the Horizon was a failure. However, the easy answer isn’t always the correct answer. Let’s unpack this.

NLOTH sold a fraction of its predecessor and received mostly lukewarm reviews. Sort of. In reality, NLOTH debuted in the Number 1 spot in thirty different countries and received 5 star ratings from RS, Blender, and Q. NME rated it at 7 out of 10 and Entertainment Weekly gave it an A-. While actual units sold may not have lived up to U2 numbers (whatever that means) the album was received well both commercially and critically. Could it be that Lillywhite has the bar set pretty high when it comes to album sales and reviews? I think so.

NLOTH lacked a big song. Let’s take a look at the U2/Lillywhite history books shall we. Lillywhite has worked with U2 on the following projects:

Albums: Boy, October, War, Achtung Baby, How To Dismantle an Atomic Bomb (Album of the Year 2006)
Songs: I Will Follow, Sunday Bloody Sunday, One, Beautiful Day, Walk On, Vertigo

Lacking a big song is a pretty vague excuse for failure. By “lacking a big song” do you mean failing to have a song that rocks the airwaves, becomes part of the cultural consciousness, and wins awards? If that is what you mean than, yeah, NLOTH failed. No doubt, Get on Your Boots was no Vertigo.

Let me ask you a question though? In your city, what station does U2 get played on? What station was playing “Get on Your Boots” or “Magnificent” in your town? The Dallas/Ft Worth radio market is the 5th largest in the nation and when I want to hear U2- old stuff and new- I have to tune into the classic rock stations. Unfortunately, nothing on the classic rock stations- old or new- will have the opportunity to compete for listeners of Lady Gaga and Justin Beiber. While LittleMonsters and those with BeiberFever can have quick and regular access to new tracks those fans of artists like U2 have to go searching. New listeners are harder to come by because their listening habits are subject to a high turnover rate. You put Magnificent on heavy rotation on a Top 40 program and you’ll get that “big hit” you’re looking for. Guaranteed.

The North African ambience that NLOTH tried to recreate did not work. I’ll simply say this- 3 songs with Moroccan drums does not a North African album make.

As a fan of U2 I can understand why someone would feel that NLOTH fell short of its predecessors. I can understand why the producer and the band might feel a sense of disappointment. However, to say that something is a failure because it isn’t larger than life is silly. To come out a full 20 months after an album’s release and then judge it by previously unknown criteria is frustrating and an exercise in futility. Songs from this album served as the soundtrack to the World Cup and it has gone on to support the largest and highest grossing concert tour in recent history.

While NLOTH is not my favorite U2 album… I do like it. There are some strong tracks on here- Magnificent, Breathe, Moment of Surrender, Crazy. It may not be perfect  but it isn’t a failure by any stretch of the imagination.

You can’t judge the present by your past. You present your gift, knowing that you did everything possible to deliver your best effort. You give it away and then you get back into the studio or hit the road or pound the pavement eager to work on your next offering.

Catch Up

It is has been a really long time since I’ve posted here on the blog. Life has a way of getting n the way of your best laid plans and that has certainly been the case for me. The Resistance got me. Let me tell you what I’ve been up to over the last few weeks.

  1. We Moved. We moved into a brand new house that was a little bit bigger than our old house and a little bit closer to the action of our daily lives. The move was a whirlwind of activity. We ended up moving our furniture in the dark because, in all the confusion of closing houses, our power was shut off. Crazy. So that was on a Tuesday.
  2. We Are Having Another Baby. And on Saturday we found out the big news. This was not the plan but we are excited and have begun the process of getting everything together for our new family member. We are anticipating another May birthday in our house.
  3. Catalyst. This past weekend I attended the Catalyst Conference with some of my youth ministry peers from here in town. We traveled by White Church Van from DFW to the ATL last Wednesday. The conference was the best yet. Andy Stanley gave an incredible lesson on Esau and set the bar for the whole week. It was incredible. On Friday, we drove the entire trip back during the night. It was a long trip but extremely fruitful. Our personal ministries will benefit from the conference and so will the joint ministry event that we participate in together. I am so excited about what lies in store for us.

There you have it 3 great things that have kept me from the blog. Be on the lookout for more regular posts beginning today.

ACU Trip

Greetings from Abilene, TX and the campus of Abilene Christian University.

I took a group of Junior and Senior teens for a college preview this weekend and we have had a blast. I have really enjoyed being with these teen as they wrestle and decide what their next steps will be. I’ve worked with these teens since they were in JR High and it has been a great honor to see them mature and grow over the last 5 school years.

Many of them are realizing what they have a passion for and they are looking for careers that will impact the community and people around them. They want to be teachers and social workers, physical therapists and ministers. They want to give of themselves and make a difference.

Love, love, love, love that!

We head home later this afternoon. Keep us in your prayers as we travel. Peace!

Top 20 Song (Play)list Pt 2

It is (Play)List Friday here at Kicking at the Darkness. This week, we’ll wrap up my Top 20 Songs (Play)List. Enjoy.

Magnificent / U2 (No Line On The Horizon)
One of the strongest songs off of NLOTH and one the loudest professions of faith in the U2 catalog- at least, that’s how I hear it. I turn this song into a prayer.

Favorite Line: “I was born, I was born to sing for you, I didn’t have a choice but to lift you up and sing whatever song you wanted me to, I give you back my voice, From the womb my first cry it was a joyful noise.”

All Along The Watchtower / Jimi Hendrix
Interesting fact: When this song comes on when I’m in the car, my vehicle turns into a helicopter and I fly missions into Vietnam. It’s true.

Favorite Line: “Let us stop talkin’ falsely now, the hour is getting late.”

Don’t You Forget About Me / Simple Minds
Have you seen Simple Minds in concert? I have. Did you every have Saturday School… In college? I did.

Favorite Line: “Smoke up Johnny!!!!!” (That’s from The Breakfast Club)

God Only Knows / Beach Boys (Pet Sounds)
The Beach Boys accomplish in 2:53 what it takes most bands lifetimes to achieve (Or not achieve).

Favorite Line: “God only knows what I’d be without you.”

A Day In the Life / The Beatles (Sgt. Pepper’s Lonely Hearts Club Band)
Chaos and order culminates into the most definitive note in rock n’ roll history.

Favorite Line: “Looking up, I noticed I was late (huff, huff, huff).”

Last Goodbye / Jeff Buckley (Grace)
The Mighty Mississippi took Jeff Buckley way too soon but not before he left us with “Grace.” This is the best track off that album and most definitely one of my favorite songs to sing along to. I can hit those high notes like no one’s business. The key is to sing with passion- a truth Buckley lived by.

Favorite Line: “Kiss me out of desire, babe, and not consolation”

The Times They Are A-Changin’ / Bob Dylan (The Times They Are A-Changin’)
Was this really written in 1964? Truth is it was written yesterday and will remain prophetic even tomorrow. Did I just blow your mind?

Favorite Line: “The line it is drawn, The curse it is cast, The slow one now will later be fast, As the present now will later be past, The order is rapidly fadin’, And the first one now will later be last, For the times they are a-changin’”

Bad-40-Where The Streets Have No Name / U2 (Electrical Storm-EP)
It’s my list and if I want to list 3 songs as 1 I will do so. Taken from the Elevation Tour: Live in Boston DVD this track contains everything you need for a live U2 experience. Add to these 3 songs Bono quoting Psalm 116 from the Message and you’ve got 12 minutes of awesome, heart-and-soul rocking music. You’re welcome!

Favorite Line: “What can I give back to God for the blessings he’s poured out on me?”

Mighty To Save / Hillsong (Mighty to Save)
I often wonder which church songs that we sing today will my son be singing 30 years from now. I hope that he will be singing this one… loudly, passionately, and with conviction.

Favorite Line: “So take me as you find me, all my fears and failures, and fill my life again. I give my life to follow, everything I believe in, now I surrender.

Five for Thursday

Top 5 Blog Posts I’ve Been Reading:

  1. ChurchMarketingSucks looks at the Church Banner #FAIL? Apparently, the WTF Banner is on purpose.
  2. Seth Godin tells us that Attitude Matters
  3. Pastor Steven Furtick reminds us that the Sermon Ships Every Week
  4. I’ve got the iPad but StuffChristiansLike.net challenges me to avoid coveting the Fancy Pulpit to match
  5. Michael Hyatt reviews all the latest reading devices from the Kindle to the iPad

Top 5 Albums I’m Listening To:

  1. Kingdom Come by Elevation Church
  2. Switchfoot iTunes Session-EP by Switchfoot
  3. Sigh No More by Mumford & Sons
  4. We Cry Out by Jeremy Camp
  5. Suburbs by Arcade Fire

Top 5 Books I’m Reading:

  1. Almost Christian by Kendra Creasy Dean
  2. Church Planter by Darrin Patrick
  3. Exponential by Dave & Jon Ferguson
  4. Permission to Speak Freely by Anne Jackson
  5. Lasting Impressions by Mark Waltz

Top 5 Tweets of the Week:

  1. @TimSchraeder: Thank goodness Jesus said the church would prevail… despite WTF and Koran-burning churches.
  2. @ScottMcClellan: Friends don’t let friends buy purple jeans. Unless you’re friends with Prince- he’d probably give you the go ahead.
  3. @CSLewisDaily: As long as he doesn’t convert it into action, it does not matter how much a man thinks about his repentance.
  4. @ConanOBrien: Facebook is trying to trademark the word “Face” I am going to trademark the word “aceboo” and then wait for the dollars to roll in.
  5. @StevenFurtick: I may or may not have made a Boyz II Men playlist for Furtick family supper background music tonight. I may or may not know every vocal run.

48 Pairs of Shoes

Shoes

Yesterday I delivered 48 pairs of shoes to a local elementary school for our church’s “Start on the Right Foot” program. Each year we partner with counselors in some of the schools here in town and provide new shoes to students. We collected approximately 250 pairs of shoes this year. That means that 250 students- who needed shoes to run in, play in, walk in, and learn in– will be able to start the new school year in style with some brand new kicks!

Way to go church! As an old coach once told me, “Ya done good.”